Thursday, June 26, 2008

Happy Birthday, Scott and Steve

Why do we always say "Scott and Steve" instead of "Steve and Scott"? Alphabetical?

What ever order you use it doesn't matter to these two identicals (even though, I could alway s tell them apart). What I love about these guys, among other things, is their devotion to each other. I can't imagine what it must be like to be a twin, but I bet nobody does it better than they do.

Our relationship began formally when I married their Dad in August of 1974; they were about 5 years old and despite some drama and intense feelings they accepted me as step-mom from the beginning. Those visits when all 6 kids were together were, for the most part, great fun and a lot of that was due to the easygoing and accepting nature of these two.

They have grown into responsible, good natured, fun loving guys who always put family first. Scott was lucky to marry Audrey and bring two beautiful kids into the family; Gracie and Christian are both precious.

Steve has had the good fortune to add Robin to the family and for that we are all grateful. It's no secret that Steve and I share a lot of likes and dislikes; he is the Dybedock that I feel closest to and see more of. But, I love them both and they have made my life richer by being part of it.

So, Happy Jack Benny, you two (or are you too young to get that reference?). I am proud of you both, delighted to still call you my sons and wish you many more birthdays in good health.

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